- added a --torture option to all ctdb tools. This sets

- added a --torture option to all ctdb tools. This sets
  CTDB_FLAG_TORTURE, which forces some race conditions to be much more
  likely. For example a 20% chance of not getting the lock on the
  first try in the daemon

- abstraced the ctdb_ltdb_lock_fetch_requeue() code to allow it to
  work with both inter-node packets and client->daemon packets

- fixed a bug left over in ctdb_call from when the client updated the
  header on a call reply

- removed CTDB_FLAG_CONNECT_WAIT flag (not needed any more)